Tuning Your Thoughts for Sure Success
|
|
It’s extremely common to look at our beliefs and insist that they’re facts… unassailable truths.
This shows how little insight we usually have into our own mental processes. It’s no disgrace. That’s just the way we are. However, it’s important to recognize that this behavior is one of the main reasons so many find it hard to change anything in their life.
You’ve heard the Biblical phrase, “You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.”
It’s an absolute certainty that the truth can make you free. But just knowing it is not enough; you’ll also have to accept it. And act on it.
How many people know that saving money, rather than spending it, will provide a secure retirement? Most people know that. But only a small minority actually ever does anything about it.
And the same is true in other areas.
We know that changing our beliefs will transform our lives. But actually doing it is hard work, so most people take a pass. Again, that’s no disgrace. If you look at the price you have to pay, weigh it against the possible benefits, you may decide it just isn’t worth the effort.
Having a life of joy, riches, success, love, acclaim and honor will require wading through some crappy stuff to get there. And there are people who simply decide not to go there.
If you look at things clearly, examine the pluses and minuses, and decide against expending all that effort, then you’ve reached a logical, well-considered decision.
Most people don’t think, however.
They just see some discomfort, and they shy away without even knowing that they’re robbing themselves.
Emotional and spiritual liberty is your birthright, but it won’t be handed to you. You’ll have to go pick it up for yourself.
That means you should know where you’re going, and have a pretty clear notion of where you’re starting from. In other words, you need at least a rudimentary map.
A Simple Starting Point For Success
To make a start toward success, you need two things.
First, you need to identify what’s in your life now that you want to be rid of. Second, you need to know what you want to replace it with.
What you DON’T want - that’s where you are now.
What you DO want - that’s where you want to be.
Once you have these two things clearly settled in your mind, you’re ahead of the vast majority of the world. Just as an experiment, sometime, go around asking people what they want, or what they want to do with their life. You’ll get “I don’t know” 97 or 98 times out of a hundred.
If you’re one of those who isn’t quite sure what you want, however, don’t despair. Discovering your desires isn’t all that hard to do.
Let’s start with where you are now. What is it about your current life that really irritates you? Not enough money? Too many bills? Health problems? No love life? Somebody bossing you around all the time?
Whatever it is making your life uncomfortable, I’ve got some good news. We’re going to take those money problems or the love problems or the health problems, and we’re going to find a positive use for them.
Instead of letting those problem always use YOU, you’re going to learn you to get some positive use out of THEM for a change.
The way we do that is simple. Use your “don’t wants” as a launching pad. Say something like “This is where I am, and I don’t want to be here. I want to find my way to a better place.”
If you know exactly how you want your life to improve, write it down. That’s your target. If you’re not sure yet, do this. Take the way your life is now, and describe your main problem, the one you want to be rid of. Then start changing the description.
Let’s say your problem is a lack of respect from co-workers and family. Write out a description of the exact opposite condition, if somehow your problem were miraculously changed. If you’re not accustomed to thinking in terms of goals and proactive change, this can be a shortcut to defining what you want.
You’re Attracting Constantly
You know why most people can’t tell you what they want? It’s simple, really. They spend so much time thinking about how bad their life is, and thinking about what they don’t want, that their mind becomes fixated on the negatives. They become experts at thinking about bad stuff.
Without ever realizing it, they’ve become specialists in all the crappy and unpleasant things that can go wrong for them.
They don’t even realize they’ve never practiced thinking about the good stuff, except in a wistful, distant “I wish I could have that,” kind of way.
“I wish I could have” translates to “I can’t have,” and their inner mind obediently attracts to them what they fill their thoughts with. Lack. Wishfulness. Sadness. Loneliness.
They’re getting exactly what they’re creating, but they never realize it. Ask any unhappy, unfulfilled person what’s causing all their misery, and you’ll get every answer but the correct one.
You’ll hear tales of bad luck, unfairness at work and at home, a boss with a grudge, a spouse that “doesn’t understand me,” and every other reason under the sun. What you won’t ever hear is: “I did all this to myself.”
Our thoughts attract to us the events and conditions that match what we’re thinking about. This happens whether or not we know it’s going on. If you walk into a room, accidentally bump the thermostat, and change its setting, the room’s temperature will change. The fact that you don’t know you did it is irrelevant. If you change the setting, the temperature changes.
So taking control of our life’s “thermostat” seems like a useful thing to learn.
Now, learning all this is pretty much like learning any other new skill. You’ll go through a stage when it’s all exciting.
Then it’ll turn into a grind.
Next will be the “I’ll never be able to do this” phase.
Then the “well, maybe I can do it, but it sure is taking longer than I expected” phase.
Eventually you’ll come to the “Okay, it’s starting to make sense and it’s working part of the time now” phase.
And finally, although it takes a while, you do reach the expert stage - if you hang in there and keep going. So learning this is just like mastering any other skill.
The ability to tune your thoughts to a new set of conditions is the same skill that the leaders and innovators of the world use to make their mark. And they had to learn it, just like you’re doing now.
If you’re learning tennis or skating, you go through a definite process of attempting new levels, one step at a time, practicing, and checking your progress. Eventually, you become so good at your new hobby that people say, “Wow, she’s just a natural,” forgetting (or ignoring) all the work you put into the process.
Well, that’s the way it’ll be, too, when you learn to run your own life.
Shall we get started?
Cheers from sunny Japan,
Charles
http://www.charlesburke.com
Charles Burke says that "luck" doesn't work the way you've always been told. Not even close. Read "The Synchronicity Report" (RIGHT CLICK FOR free PDF download.)
But What's the Quickest, Surest Way to Learn It?
RIGHT CLICK to download Report
The Synchronicity Report
Everyone has heard of Synchronicity. But most people think it's just a ten-dollar word for "luck."
The truth is, it's not. The word "luck" describes a kind of blind randomness that you just can't depend on. Sooner or later, luck always lets you down.
Synchronicity, on the other hand, is utterly dependable (if you know what you're doing).
But more importantly, Synchronicity is always found hanging around people with a strong success mindset, people who always seem to land on their feet.
That's the basic concept. Of course there's more - tons more.
Download the report and read it. I think you'll see what I mean.
For more information, please visit Charles Burke's "Synchronicity Secrets" Website.
Teach the Mind and Touch the Spirit!
Quantum Clearing: Unblocking Your Abundance! : How can you live rich today when you're still covered in yesterday's garbage? Isn't it about time you cleared out the garbage stopping your abundance? Isn't it about time you moved into the life you know you can live? The rich, healthy, abundant life you want and deserve desperately?
Wealth Beyond Reason : "Why Shouldn't You Have Everything You Want?" Learn how to Purposefully Activate Laws of Physics to Generate the Wealth you Deserve. This is the Education You Should Have Received All Along! If you think you "already know all this", I invite you to find out for sure. Learn how to use the law of attraction to manifest Wealth into your life like a magnet! Effortless Prosperity Is Your Birthright. Claim It! Begin Experiencing Wealth Beyond Reason Today!
Wanted: People Who Need Money Fast! : Discover How YOU can cash in on the $25,000-a-day secret that's made millions. Let Stuart A. Lichtman show you "How to Get Lots of Money for Anything - FAST!"
Claim your FREE Mini-course: "How to Get Lots of Money Fast!
Visualization School! : Do you speak the Language of the Universe? The Universe communicates in pictures, images and feelings. It has a language of its own and to succeed in communicating effectively we need to learn and use that language. Precise communication is needed to fulfill our orders. Visualization is the language and feelings are the messenger's wings on which it is sent. Think about What You Want From Life and make a decision right now that you are going to have it all... then click here to enroll in "Visualisation School"!
Secret of Deliberate Creation : Would you like to STOP WAITING FOR THINGS to happen, activate your subconscious power and create your desires at RAPID SPEED? Easily manifest more money, more freedom, new ideas or anything else you desire… discover the secret to understanding and mastering your own desires! Sign Up NOW for Dr. Robert Anthony's FREE 6-DAY E-COURSE: The Million Dollar Secret That Can Change Your Life!
The Absolute Secret : Looking for the secrets to life, success, wealth, and happiness? The Absolute Secret is the key revealing long lost books of the true secrets to success and a life of happiness. The secrets in these books have helped many a millionaire along the way to true happiness, success and the meaning of life!
Have you heard of BANABU? : Become A Part Of A Worldwide Phenomenon and Discover... How To Get Anything You Want, Starting Today, With 11 Simple Proven Principles To Living Your Ultimate Life. Claim Your Free "Instant Results" Special Report "How To Create Instant Results And Amplify Them In Any Area of Your Life Doing Something A Six Year Old Girl Can Do."
Mike Brescia's Think Right Now : Now You Can have the same minute-by-minute thoughts as the super successful... Mike Brescia has developed the ultimate mental conditioning programs that can help anyone wipe out intense fears and enjoy huge successes in all areas of life. Succeed even where you've failed repeatedly. Find out how. Enroll in The Free 6-Day Accelerated Success Course Now!
Images of One : Are you ready for your quantum leap into the understanding, having and enjoying of immense wealth and happiness? The first step to having wealth is to know what it is. And few people know what it really is, in and of itself. What is wealth? What causes it? What causes the cause of it? Let me introduce you to David Cameron's "A Happy Pocket Full of Money" It's your personal guide to Wealth Consciousness. Sign up Now for your FREE 8-Part Create Wealth mini-eCourse!
Be Psychic : Give Me Just FIVE MINUTES Today -- And I'll Show YOU How to READ ANYONE'S MIND! Plus, I'll Teach You How to Astral Travel... Predict the Future... Heal Animals... Send "P-Mail"...and Improve your Sex Life! This is the ultimate course in psychic development! Claim your FREE Psychic Mini-Course! Learn the Secrets... Debunk the Myths!
Interested in LUCID DREAMING? : Take a look at Bradley Thompson's breakthrough dreaming course. Chat with Einstein... Get Rid of Phobias... Enjoy Sexual Adventures! It's all at your fingertips, when you explore the exciting world of lucid dreaming. Claim your FREE Lucid Dreaming Mini-Course! Our FREE five-part mini-course provides EVERYTHING you need to get started with lucid dreaming.
Subliminal Messages on your Computer : Influence your mind while you work. Subliminal messaging is powerful. We both know that. The U.S. Government even banned it on TV and radio in the 70's. Now, there's a program that can send subliminal messages direct to your subconscious, while you use your computer! Check out Subliminal Power!
Speed Reading Secret! : What if you could TRIPLE your reading speed in just 45 minutes? Let Dr Michael Masterman teach you how to literally triple your reading speed in well under an hour (without fast music or other gimmicks!) -- and maintain that super-fast reading speed, even weeks later!
Claim Your FREE Mini-Course : Discover Speed Reading Secrets!
|
Free
$27.00
Value
|
|
|
RSS Feed For This News
